Spilling Open

Title: Spilling Open: The Art of Becoming Yourself

Author: Sabrina Ward Harrison

Pages/Format: 176/Paperback

My Thoughts: I’ve had this on my bookshelf, and the last time I looked at it was when I first bought it.  It’s a mix of being a personal journal, photography, art, and collages.  I loved it when I first got it, but now, it’s okay.  There are still several things she says that ring true, and resonates with me, but overall, I had mixed feelings this time around.  I found the text hard to read, and some of the pages had too much going on for me to fully enjoy it.

It was fairly repetitive and angsty at times, which didn’t really bother me, since my journals are somewhat similar in that regard.  And since it’s the diary of a young girl discovering who she is, it was somewhat expected.  There’s a fair amount of rambling, iand sn’t really coherent.  That was disappointing, but again, for a personal journal-type book, it wasn’t that surprising either.

I loved some of the quotes she had scattered throughout the book, but found she relied too much on them at times.  It would have been nice to see more of her own thoughts, even if the actual text was disjointed, and didn’t always make sense.  That was another thing I didn’t like- the text was all over the place, and it was hard to connect some of the thoughts together. 

I loved a lot of the artwork and photography, which quickly became one of my favorite parts of the book.  However, it did overwhelm some of the pages, since there was too much to focus on and look at.

Rating: I give it a 4 out of 5.  The artwork was great, and she captures what it’s like to be a young woman really well, which is why it gets a higher rating than it really should have received.  Also boosting the rating is the fact that I feel inspired to be more creative with my own journal.

The Spirituality of Imperfection

Title: The Spirituality of Imperfection: Storytelling and the Search For Meaning

Author: Ernest Kurtz and Katherine Ketcham

Pages/Format: 243/Paperback

What I Thought: Someone recommended this book to me about 4 years ago, and it’s taken me several years to get through it.  I loved the stories and quotes scattered throughout the book.  It was hard to get into, because the book is fairly dry, and read like a textbook at times.

A.A. and the 12 Steps/Traditions are mentioned throughout the book; at times, I felt like it was more like the spirituality of A.A., not the spirituality of imperfection.  Kurtz, according to the author biography at the back of the book, has written several books about A.A., which would explain the focus on A.A., as well as the bias towards A.A..  I don’t have anything against A.A., but I felt like it was focused on too much.

I did find the book interesting, though, since it’s about how accepting imperfection is the 1st step towards spirituality, and how there’s meaning and joy within suffering. 

I did like how the authors connected the stories to both imperfection and spirituality, and also how the stories illustrated the story of spirituality and imperfection.  I also liked the organization of the book, which is divided into 3 sections- the roots of spirituality, how spirituality and A.A. are really connected, and how spirituality is beneficial. 

Rating: 2.5 out of 5 because the quotes and stories were the only redeeming factor of the book.  Everything could have been said more succinctly, and it was redundant at times, especially towards the end.  While I did like the stories, they did start to sound the same about halfway through.

Lunch With Authors

Prompt: Name an author that you’d like to have lunch with.

My 1st response was to this prompt was “living or dead?”  I thought I’d do both.

J.K. Rowling would be my choice for an author that’s still living.  I loved the Harry Potter series so much, and I’d love to be able to talk with her.  I’d probably be too much in awe to say anything, but eventually I’d probably say something.  I’d probably end up asking her about the series, but hopefully I’d remember to get in a few other questions.  The books are just so magical, and to be able to talk with J.K.R. would be so amazing.

Jane Austen would be my choice for an author who’s no longer alive.  I’m a big fan of her books, and just love her characters!  I haven’t read Mansfield Park, but I have read her other 5 books, and I must say that I really do love Jane Austen.  I can’t put a finger on why I love her books, but it’s a combination of her writing and the characters.  I will admit to not liking Pride and Prejudice the 1st time I read it, but I think it was because I had trouble get used to her writing style.  When I read it the 2nd time, I could appreciate it, and fell in love with it.  Emma and Sense and Sensibility are 2nd and 3rd, with Persuasion and Northanger Abbey being my 4th and 5th, if I ranked them in order of how much I liked them.

And while my answers really isn’t a surprise, given that Harry Potter and Pride and Prejudice are my top 2 favorite books, I think those are my 2 choices.

Northanger Abbey

Title: Northanger Abbey

Author: Jane Austen

Pages/Format: 236/paperback

What I Thought: Now that I’ve read Northanger Abbey, Mansfield Park is the only Jane Austen book I haven’t read. 

Northanger Abbey is about 17-year-old Catherine Morland.  She visits Bath, England for the 1st time with the Allens, who are her neighbors.  She is invited to stay at Northanger Abbey by General Tilney; she’s friends with his daughter Eleanor, and his son, Henry is Catherine’s love interest. 

Northanger Abbey is probably my least favorite of Jane Austen’s novels.  I liked it, but found myself bored while reading it.  It did take me a couple times to really enjoy Pride and Prejudice, which is one of my absolute favorite books, so I’m willing to give Northanger Abbey another chance.  However, I did like Volume 2, which takes place in Northanger Abbey much better than Volume 1. 

Catherine does mature throughout the novel, as she learns that life does not always resemble fiction, and that things are not always what they appear to be.  A great example of this is when her friend Isabella gets engaged to Catherine’s brother James.  The engagement gets broken off when it comes out that Isabella was flirting with another man.  Over the course of the novel, she learns that she doesn’t need to rely on others, and it’s okay to be independent. 

I did like Catherine, who lived her life as though she were a heroine in the Gothic novels that she loved to read.  She’s very imaginative, which is something that worked well for her; at the same time, it wasn’t something that was shown very often.  

Rating: 3.5 out of 5.  While not my favorite Jane Austen novel, and while I was slightly bored reading it, it was still a good read, and I found certain parts of it kept me on the edge of my seat.

The Bell Jar

Title: The Bell Jar

Author: Sylvia Plath

Pages/Format: 244/Paperback

What I Thought: I really liked it, and I could definitely relate to Esther Greenwood’s descent into depression.  The Bell Jar is about Esther Greenwood, who had an internship in New York City, but finds herself becoming more and depressed, until she ends up in a mental hospital.

I thought it was a realistic portrayal of what it’s like to live with depression, and I found myself thinking about my own experiences and struggles with depression.  I also really liked the imagery that Plath used, as well as her writing style.

While it was sometimes hard to follow, I was willing overlook it.  Sometimes your thoughts are all over the place, and they certainly aren’t rational at times.  It was also hard to get into, but over time, I found myself wrapped up in the book.

The feelings of going under and feeling trapped are all too familiar, and it’s a struggle to cope with it; at the same time, you find ways to move, and ways to make the pain go away. 

The Bell Jar is apparently semi-autobiographical, and I can certainly understand writing a fictionalized account of your life.  Since this is the only work of Plath’s I’ve read, and since I don’t know much about Sylvia Plath, I can’t really say for sure.  But going off of the fact that she did kill herself by sticking her head in an oven, and struggled with depression, I’d say that certain elements of her life did end up in The Bell Jar.  Sometimes writing about what’s going on can be very cathartic. 

Rating: 4 out of 5.  It’s not the most amazing book I’ve ever read, but I certainly knew what Esther was going through, and how even the most mundane tasks can be difficult.

Anne of Avonlea

Title: Anne of Avonlea

Author: L.M. Montgomery

Pages/Format: 276/e-book

What I Thought: Anne of Avonlea is the 2nd book in the Anne of Green Gables series.  I liked it slightly better than Anne of Green Gables- Anne is more mature in Anne of Avonlea, but still manages to get herself into some trouble.  She still has a vivid imagination and is still talkative, although she’s not nearly as talkative or imaginative as she was in the 1st book. 

She is now a teacher at the same school she used to go to, and there are a new cast of characters.  There are Davy and Dora Keith, who Marilla adopts after their mother dies, and their new neighbor, Mr. Harrison.

I did like the Avonlea Village Improvement Society (or AVIS) which Anne herself had organized.  There were questionable results at the start of AVIS, mainly when the town hall was painted blue instead of green.  After the mix-up, AVIS flourished because the town blamed the Pye family, who had been given the job of painting the hall.     

Having liked Anne of Avonlea so much, I can’t wait to read the 3rd book in the series, since the novel ends with Anne going off to college. 

Rating: 4 out of 5.  I loved it, and I can’t wait to see what sort of adventures Anne gets herself into.

A Tree Grows In Brooklyn

Title: A Tree Grows In Brooklyn

Author: Betty Smith

Pages/Format: 493/Paperback

What I Thought: For some reason, I thought I had read this book, but as I started reading, I realized I had never read it before. 

It’s somewhat hard to summarize A Tree Grows In Brooklyn, but it’s pretty much a coming-of-age story.  It follows Francie Nolan as she grows up in Brooklyn with her mom (Katie), dad (Johnny) and brother (Neely).

I loved seeing Francie grow up- she had a lot to deal with, and her family clearly struggled to make ends meet.  Poverty and alcoholism are present throughout the book, and yet the Nolans perservere and rise above all of the problems they have.  I felt like I was growing up with Francie as she worked several jobs, had her heart-broken and took college courses.  I nearly started crying when I read the end- I wonder what happened to Francie and her family.  I wished it were just a little longer, because I enjoyed it so much.

I think one of my favorite parts of the whole book was when Francie’s English teacher talked to her about some of her essays and how writing about poverty and alcoholism was sordid, and that people acknowledged bad things existed, but no one wrote about it. 

Rating: I give it a 5 out of 5.  It was a great book, and one I can’t wait to read again.  It was definitely worth buying.

Jamba Juice Power

Title: Jamba Juice Power

Author: Kirk Perron, with Stan Dembecki

Pages/Format: 222/Hardcover

What I Thought: It’s an interesting book: part recipes, part history 0f Jamba Juice, part nutrition and part lifestyle guide. 

The really brief history of Jamba Juice was really interesting, and I would have liked to see a more detailed history.  However, that can be resolved by googling Jamba Juice.

I could have done without the nutrition section, most of which I already knew, and is common sense.  I did like how how he put it on a basic level.  I also didn’t care for the details on their different boosts, and what goes into the boosts.

There’s a 21-day guide to being more healthy.  The reasoning behind 21 days (according to Perron) is that 21 days is how long it takes to form a habit, so by the end of 3 weeks, the reader should be well on their way to a better mind and body.  However, all of the advice is very practical and easy to work into your daily life.

The smoothie and juice recipes were my favorite part, because who doesn’t love a good smoothie?  However, a lot of the smoothies had over 500 calories, with one clocking in at an astounding 880 calories!  I don’t know about anyone else, but when I think smoothies, I think healthy and good for you.  The fact that frozen yogurt/sherbert is used in a lot of the smoothies are the likely culprit behind it, and could probably be substituted with something else.  Assuming you’re eating 2,000 calories a day, you’re drinking drinking anywhere from 25% to nearly 50% of your calorie intake for the day.  Knowing that, I’d probably drink these particular smoothies every once in a while, and not everyday.  I don’t count calories or anything, but I’d rather not drink 25% of calories, even if it has fruit in it. 

I also liked the juice section, which thankfully had a lot less calories then a lot of the smoothies, although I wished it had been a little longer.  Again, that’s something I can probably google. 

There’s also a glossary, which I could have done without, but it’s probably good for those who want to know what the different terms mean.  There’s a resource section as well- although I have no idea how accurate it is now, since I’ve had the book for a few years.  All the government websites (the CDC, NIH, etc) are up-to-date but some of the others, I’m not so sure about.  And there is a recommended product page, which is nice if you’re in the market for a blender and/or juicer.

Rating: I give it a 3 out of 5.  It’s more of a lifestyle book as opposed to smoothies and juice.  I was expecting it be more Jamba Juice, although I’ve only been to Jamba Juice a few times, and it’s been a while since I’ve stopped by.  I was expecting a lot more smoothies, and more of the history of Jamba Juice.  I was slightly disappointed with the smoothies, but still yummy.

Books Everywhere!

A Stack of Books

I love that picture, and I found it here.  It goes really well with my love of books and reading, which I got from my grandpa.  I’ve mentioned before that he used to take me to the library every week when I was little, and that’s something I’ll always remember.

I will admit to having a few stacks of books just sitting on my floor.  I love books!  They’re my favorite thing ever, and all I want to do is buy books.  It’s a problem sometimes, because I don’t have enough room for all the books I want to buy.  I do see a a roomful of books everywhere in my future.

There is so much to learn from books!  There are great stories to be read and so much I can learn about.  If there’s one thing I like to do, it’s learning.  That’s another thing I got from my grandpa, always learning.  He used to read encyclopedia’s for fun, and he always liked reading about history.

One of my favorite things is highlighting and writing notes in the margins.  I don’t write in every book I own, but I have been known to write the occasional note or highlight a random passage.  I have an odd assortment of books, paperclips and scraps of paper that I’ve used to mark my place.  Failing that, I’ll just fold the corner down.

There’s something comforting about curling up on the couch (or in bed) and reading a book.  Books make me happy because for a few hundred pages, I can forget about what’s going on and escape to a completely different world.  I’ve traveled Middle Earth, been to Narnia, and attended Hogwarts.  I’ve peeked into the lives of Elizabeth I, Henry III and Maya Angelou.  I get to travel all over the world and have amazing adventures without even leaving the comfort of my own bed.

Books are magical, and as long as I can read, I’ll be a happy camper.

PostSecret (Times 2)

Quick Note: Today I’m reviewing two books instead of one.  And Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

Title: PostSecret: Extraordinary Confessions From Ordinary Lives and My Secret: A PostSecret Book

Author: Both are compiled by Frank Warren

Pages/Format: Postsecret: 276/Hardcover; My Secret: 144/Hardcover

What I Thought: Since these two books are both PostSecret, and very similar, I thought I’d lump them together.

For those who aren’t familiar with PostSecret, it’s where people send in a secret they have neve revealed to anyone.  The secrets are sent to Frank Warren on a postcard, which are often decorated or go along with the secret in some way.

I really liked both books.  I could relate to a lot of the secrets, but even with the ones I couldn’t relate to, I still feel connected to them.

One of my favorites is from PostSecret, and the person had sent in a postcard that said they had no idea which secret to send in, because they had so many.  Or the one from MySecret that goes like this: wanting someone to recognize one of their secrets so they could stop pretending.

Some are sad, some are heart-warming, some are silly.  There is a sense of relief in sharing your secret, even if it is on an anonymous postcard sent in to a stranger.     

Rating: PostSecret gets a 4 out of 5.  I loved the secrets, and it’s great to flip through it every once in a while to remind myself that there are other people out there feeling the same way I do.  There were a wide variety of secrets to go through.

MySecret gets a 4 out of 5 as well.  I also loved the secrets in this one, and I felt the same way when I read this one as I did when I read Postsecret.  There weren’t as many secrets to flip through, but that’s due to the fact that MySecret is considerably shorter than PostSecret.  Despite it’s length, I still found it enjoyable and heart-breaking.